tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5537420320725314260.post3306109302544629737..comments2024-03-16T16:31:16.652-07:00Comments on Finding Sunday: December and a Little Year End ReflectionMindy Swenson Kinnierhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11511083744644878700noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5537420320725314260.post-20863205408350560102013-01-05T16:15:48.094-08:002013-01-05T16:15:48.094-08:00Dear Nick and Mindy--rich blessings in 2103. . .th...Dear Nick and Mindy--rich blessings in 2103. . .thanks for sharing the nitty gritty of life, Mindy; I enjoy reading your blog thoughts and am often challenged by what you share.<br />ahh,how closely connected is the joy and sorrow in this broken world. as I sit over coffee with women, I am reminded that pain and sorrow is a common denominator for us all-it looks different in each life, sometimes we share similar pain. Last week I sat with a woman who told me that her husband of 10 years told her that he no longer loves her. . .ah, my heart breaks for her and we pray together that she will cling to the Savior.<br />this year I'm thinking about and praying that Psalm 131 will be a reality in my own life, that God would work humility in me when I don't understand his ways. Sorry for the wordy comment--I'll just send it on with prayers for you and Nick in the new year--and with love from Texas and beyond.darciehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05347221718201556092noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5537420320725314260.post-48607825338143061172013-01-05T10:43:33.725-08:002013-01-05T10:43:33.725-08:00Oh Mindy, you are also such a good writer! I under...Oh Mindy, you are also such a good writer! I understand your pain so very well and I too felt self absorbed and unable to see anything else or anyone else during my YEARS of infertility. It is unreal and not easily understood by others. When we were in Santa Barbara, our church had such a limited understanding of this kind of pain which only intensified my own. But God was faithful and He did not allow me to harden my heart toward Him...only toward THEM! lol. But I was also very vocal about what I thought they needed to learn so that others would not be hurt by them as I was. Even Mother's Day was SO HARD at CHURCH! And while I did not want to take away other people's joy, I wanted to be validated that HELLO there are also people like ME who the whole PROCREATE thing that was promised AIN'T HAPPENING! So I also told that to pastors at other churches because we suffer ALONE and in SILENCE. Even today with the blessing of Bella, my heart still hurts on that day at church because I am so familiar with that pain and my compassion for others runs deep. It is important for pastors to acknowledge that it's not a happy day for everyone. But don't be too hard on yourself, Mindy. Our God CAN handle ALL of you even your emotions. He made you, Honey, and He will not abandon you. I also like the person you are becoming...before and after. But you do have an inner beauty that is already shining through your pain and that to me is evidence of God's loving fingerprints on your life! You Are Even More Beautiful! OXOOXOX♥kevndawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03639893475051537547noreply@blogger.com